Sunday, March 3, 2013

What to do with an Alcoholic?

The life of an alcoholic is not only chaotic for the alcoholic, but can be a source of trauma for the alcoholic family.How do you live with an alcoholic is constantly on the mind of the spouse in an alcoholic family.The chaos and dysfunction of alcoholism in the family may result all too often in alcoholic children. What to do with an alcoholic and family alcoholism is addressed in Randy Young’s book “SECRET TIPS: HOW TO SURVIVE & HELP THE ALCOHOLIC YOU LOVE.” Following is an excerpt from my book,"Confused? Wondering why the focus should start with you and not the alcoholic? Let me explain why. First of all, the only person you can truly change is you. You have the control and ability to learn new information, and to change how you think, feel and act. Chances are you have already tried nearly everything you can think of to get the alcoholic to stop drinking. You may have made excuses for the alcoholic’s drinking behavior, taken over responsibilities, tried to bargain with the alcoholic, threatened, bailed him out of trouble, and pleaded and bargained to no avail. These failed attempts to change the alcoholic are further evidence that your focus has been on the wrong person." Hopefully this will stimulate some thought and discussion. Thank you for letting me share. I invite readers interested in my books to visit my author's page at https://www.amazon.com/author/youngrandy

9 comments:

Unknown said...

This very helpful information. Thank you for this information.

Anonymous said...

Highly recommend this author.The books he writes are very helpful. You can't control the alcoholic, but you can control the way you think and react tords the person with the addiction.

Anonymous said...

Highly recommend this author.The books he writes are very helpful. You can't control the alcoholic, but you can control the way you think and react tords the person with the addiction.

Unknown said...

I am really interested to get a copy of this book. This may help me as a person on how to handle things especially towards alcohol addiction.

Susan said...

I just heard about this from my sister and i just have to visit this link so I could get a copy of it. I am super excited to read this book.

Unknown said...

One of the best and my favorite author Randy. I just love reading his books.

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